Restraints
Frequently Asked Questions About Restraints
Will restraints leave marks on skin?
Will restraints leave marks on skin?
It depends on the material, the fit and the length of the session. Padded and neoprene cuffs are the least likely to mark, particularly when fitted correctly with two fingers of clearance between the cuff and skin. Leather and metal restraints can leave temporary impressions, especially during longer wear or if the fit is too snug. If marking is a concern, padded options used at a proper fit are the safest starting point.
What are bed restraints and how do they attach?
What are bed restraints and how do they attach?
Bed restraints and ties are designed to anchor to a bed frame, usually with straps that slide under the mattress or fasten to the frame itself. Most designs fit standard single, double and king frames without any tools or permanent fixtures. They connect to wrist and ankle cuffs at the other end to hold a position during play.
How tight should wrist restraints be?
How tight should wrist restraints be?
Tight enough to hold without slipping, but with room to fit two fingers between the cuff and the skin. If the fit causes numbness, tingling, discolouration or sharp pain, it is too tight. Check circulation regularly during longer sessions, particularly if the arms are raised or weight is being placed on restrained limbs.
How do padded cuffs and leather cuffs hold up over time?
How do padded cuffs and leather cuffs hold up over time?
Padded and neoprene cuffs are low-maintenance - they wipe down easily, the hardware is usually rust-resistant and the padding holds its shape through regular use. Leather cuffs require more care: conditioning keeps them supple, and neglect will eventually cause cracking at stress points around buckles and D-rings. Properly maintained leather will outlast most synthetic options. If you want durability without the upkeep, padded is the more practical choice. If longevity and improving with age matter more, leather is worth the investment.
I want to use restraints with other toys - what works well together?
I want to use restraints with other toys - what works well together?
Wrist and ankle restraints are usually the foundation. Once they are fitted and comfortable, other elements - blindfolds, gags, sensation tools - layer over the top without needing to revisit fit or position. Bed restraints work particularly well when positioning needs to stay fixed across a longer scene involving multiple points of contact. Keep a safe word or agreed non-verbal signal in place before adding complexity, and keep safety scissors accessible whenever additional restriction is involved.
What size of restraints should I order?
What size of restraints should I order?
Most cuffs in the range are adjustable across a wide fit, so exact sizing matters less than checking the adjustment range against your wrist or ankle measurement before ordering. Product listings include the minimum and maximum circumference each cuff covers. If you are between sizes or buying for a partner, err toward the larger end of the range - a cuff with more adjustment room gives you more control over fit than one that sits near its maximum.